In the Mailbox: Is this the twin soul?
Posted by adminJan 30
Today’s question comes from a distressed young lady from Louisiana. It’s really sad when two people can’t be together, yet one or both of them are still longing for each other. Is it the twin flame relationship?
“Dear Dorothy,
There is this guy that I’ve known for 8 yrs but we’ve dated for 6 out of those 8yrs. He was my first love, my first sexual partner, and my first heart-break, I’ve dated a few before him and a couple after him and so did he but for some strange and odd reason we always seem to reconnect back to each other. I was the first and last girl he dated that had respect for his parents, self respect for myself,morals,ambition, and many more positive traits. We connected as friends first and then things grew into a loving relationship but being that my family got involved and did everything in their powers to keep and tear us apart until finally that breaking point came and we had no choice but to split.. But having that so close and strong connection we manage to once again link up only this time he was involved with another female. Of course every female he would date would always dislike me because his family and he always shared that they could never be like me. He said that he only experience real love with me and that he wished my parents would never have pushed him away because he really was in deep love with me and so was I.. So 2yrs have went by we had lost communication but as I said before we always manage to reconnect but this time he is married to a woman that forced him to do it he’s already talking about a divorce because they have major issues he says he cant sleep at night and neither can I since we split. He says he wants to be back with me and I feel the same. I never felt real love with no other man but him I tried my best to move on and shake and get past him but I cant and I was told that the reason why I feel so strongly towards him the way I do is because he is most definitely my SOUL MATE WE ARE LIKE TWIN FLAMES AND THAT HE IS THE ONE FOR ME AND I STRONGLY BELIEVE IT IS TRUE SO MY QUESTION TO YOU IS DO YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE FOR ME ON MY SITUATION??? AND DO YOU THINK THAT THIS GUY REALLY COULD BE MY SOUL MATE??????
INFATUATED WITH LOVE”
Hi Infatuated,
No matter what happens in our life, we are always going to have a special place in our heart for our “first.” I remember my first and although I would never have him back like it was back in the day, I still think fondly of him. I don’t think anyone would disagree with that. What we need to decide here is whether or not he is indeed your twin flame. Twin flames, or twin souls, do tend to reunite at the darndest times and it’s nine times out of ten the wrong time. Why that is is baffling. What I think is that while it was horrible to the both of you at the time but your parents stepped in and put an end to the relationship for a reason and that reason could have something to do with unfinished business you two had before you could reunite again. Of course, your parents would not know that but the law of the universe has a way of stepping in. Can you look back and try to figure out why it was they didn’t want the two of you together because that I believe will hold the key to why you aren’t together at this time. Since he married this other girl (which is where his life’s journey was supposed to go), it’s a whole different ballgame. What you need to do is try to move on as hard as that sounds to do. It’s obvious both of you have more lessons to learn before you two can be together. In order to reunite with him, if that’s in yours and his life’s plan, something has to change. A relationship with someone who is already married for whatever reason won’t last. He will be torn between you and his wife and there will be problems. If his life’s journey is to leave his wife, how certain are you that you haven’t found the soul mates who are supposed to come into your life when that happens? Both of you have got to come from a baggage-free background. Until both of you are ready, it’s not going to happen. Think back on your relationship and try to figure out why it was he came into your life in the first place and then you’ll understand what the next step will be.
If you have a soul mate relationship question, email Dorothy at thewriterslife(at)gmail.com. Thank you and I look forward to having your question featured at The Soul Mate Triangle!
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